Showing posts with label time thoughts mind reading body language control mixed signals. Show all posts
Showing posts with label time thoughts mind reading body language control mixed signals. Show all posts

9.04.2009

There's no need to complicate our time is short

I can't seem to stop the conversations in my head.
The battles in my mind:
what I want vs what I need

For the most part, things have come easy for me. Not because I don't try, but because I am sure to gain as much control in every situation as possible.


Where I'm stumped:
I can't control another person's thought. I can't even hear them to know what's on someones mind.

I wish people would follow up with the "Say What's Real" blog that I wrote. It saves the time wasted when you're thinking about something or someone that has no future with you.

I've been told that I give mixed signals a lot...but something just clicked. Perhaps it's not me giving the mixed signals, it's the other person...Perhaps I simply mimic what I'm seeing and try to feed off of it, but their confusion is making me confused -- or am I really just the confused one?

I've also realized that I generally do convey mixed signs when it comes to the opposite sex because if I am uncertain on what their thought process is in relationship to me, I can't seem to let myself go completely...I put a guard/shield up to protect me from any incoming danger...but, of course, that's because feelings (overrated) get involved.

Maybe the best thing is to just stop over-analyzing things...



Easier said than done................................